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Ultimate Guide to Have the Best Sex of Your Life

Want to make sure you’re having the best sex possible? Follow these great tips on how to have the best sex of your life!

Published: November 29, 2022

Author: Admin

Want to make sure you’re having the best sex possible? Follow these great tips on how to have the best sex of your life!

Talk about sex

Sex is a complicated topic, but it doesn't have to be. The best way to make sure that you and your partner are on the same page and have a fulfilling sex life is by talking about it. So, how do you start? Remember not to get frustrated if your partner says they're not in the mood for this conversation. It may take some time for them to feel comfortable enough with being open with their feelings around sex.

Set the mood

Setting the mood for sex is important. If you're not comfortable with your surroundings, put on some music, light some candles and make it an experience. You'll be surprised at how a few simple changes can make all the difference in how you feel about the sex you're having.

Get in the right mindset

In order to have an amazing sex life, you need to be in a good state of mind. Whether you are looking for a quickie or want it to last all night, your mindset is crucial. You need to feel comfortable and secure with yourself and your partner. If you're not in the right headspace for sex, then it's just not going to happen for you.

Try new things

We all have our favorite positions, but the best sex is about exploring and trying new things. Below are some of my favorite sex positions and sex toys for the best sex ever:

  • The missionary position can be great because it’s easy access with a guy who has a lot of stamina. It also lets you see his face as he’s inside you which makes it intimate and connected. We love this positions especially when using the Lelo Tiani 3, this couples vibrator will change up your sex life and keep these positions fresh!
  • Doggy style is one of my favorites because it offers deep penetration and feels amazing. Doggy style opens up the opportunity for clitoral stimulations with natural penetration, we suggest the Fifty Shades Sensation finger vibrator to pair orgasmicly with this position.
  • You can even get on top of him and ride him cowgirl style which offers clitoral stimulation from your rocking motion. The grand daddy for a clitoral orgasm is the Lovense Domi 2 Sex Wand, target your clit while you ride him and you will be seeing the world in a whole new light!

Be present

The key to having great sex is being present during sex. This means you need to be present in your own body, in your partner's body, and in the pleasure that is happening. If you are not present and aware of what is going on, then it will be hard for you to really enjoy yourself.

Enjoy yourself!

Sex should be an enjoyable experience, not a chore. If you're in the moment and don't feel pressured, sex will be much better than if you're thinking about what's happening the next day. It's also important to communicate with your partner and let them know when something feels good.

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